Someone helps in a way we didn't ask for.
The advice arrives uninvited.
They tidy the pile we knew our way around.
The questions keep coming while we are trying to think.
We react to the form the help came in.
Not the reason it came.
Help will not always arrive in the form we wanted.
It arrives in the form they had.
The frustration can stay with us.
It does not have to reach them.
They were not trying to wear us down.
They were trying to help.